You can change YOUR own life for good.Edward Albee was born on March 12, 1928, and began writing plays 30 years later. Soon, you’ll feel your inner peace building and joy filled living will be even more abundant. If you have been, what needs to change in order for you to live in alignment with your true self? Develop a plan around those changes and work on it a few minutes each day. On the flip side, you will be more interesting to those in your life and to yourself.Īs I continue to work through my own recovery from settling, I encourage you to ask yourself if you have been settling. You will shake things up in order to find your personal peace and this challenges everything you’ve become accustomed to as a person who settles. It also creates challenges to the external peace you have created around you as others adjust to you reclaiming yourself. Living in congruence with who we really are is the path to our greatest fulfillment and more joy. After sampling many different types of eggs, she discovers she loves Eggs Benedict. Previously she always ordered whatever the love of her life at that time was ordering. Reminds me of the scene from the movie Runaway Bride where Julia Roberts’ character is trying to figure out what type of eggs she likes. It’s exhausting to settle because you lose little pieces of yourself in the process.
A friend from my past described me as “chronically discontented.”
The challenge with this is there is peace all around me and none within me.
Interestingly, by working to keep things copasetic around me, I discovered I’ve settled. I learned to toe the line so to speak so as to keep the world around me and my relationships functioning harmoniously. I can still feel the sensation of being electric and alive even knowing there would be consequences.Īs I grew older, this direct “I’ll do what I want” defiance changed and shifted as I learned to be more “acceptable” in my behavior. You can imagine for yourself the image of a pretty little girl emerging with a frog in her hands and covered in moss and mud from head to toe. I’m sure my eyes twinkled as I immediately headed for the creek to catch frogs and tadpoles. I also remember my mother telling me, in no uncertain terms, to stay out of the creek.
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